Destined to be

chapter 24

reviously ;

Tyler: " “I promise to be your best friend. To have your back no matter what. To let you fight your own battles, but will tap in when you need help. I promise to share the covers and make sure I leave some hot water for you. To love your family as if they were my own. To not make you go to Disney world for every vacation. I promise to try new experiences as long as it doesn’t have cheese on it. To hold your hand every chance I get. I promise to defend you to others, even if you are wrong. I promise to put your happiness before mine.”

Mindy: " Aww , this is so cute . Now I love you even more . "

Tyler: " Thank u . "

Mindy: " I have one . "

Tyler: " Say . "

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Mindy: " Ok , so . . . . . . . . . . Stop staring me first it is making me concious . "

Tyler: " Ok . "

Mindy: " “ I promise to make you laugh, be honest, patient, kind and forgiving, hold your hand in the car, always kiss you goodnight, trust you, write you love notes, never lose faith, encourage you, listen to you, tell you my dreams, try to see the best before the worst, comfort you, be devoted, respect you, use kind words, be your lover and friend, make memories and love you always.”

Tyler: " I want to be the reason you look down at your phone and smile. Then walk into a pole.”

Mindy: “ I can’t promise that I will make all your problems go away but I can promise that you will always find me beside yourself through your struggles, and never alone.”

Tyler: " “I’m not perfect. But I love you. I really do. And I promise to be your best friend, your partner in crime and your lover. Forever.”

Mindy: " You have written a lot . "

Tyler: " Trust me they are spontaneous . "

Mindy: " There’s a LOVE that only you can give, a SMILE that only your lips can show, a TWINKLE that can only be seen in your eyes and my LIFE that only you can COMPLETE.”

Tyler: " What’s Mickey without Minnie, what’s Tigger without Pooh, what’s Donald without Daisy, that’s me without you. And when Elmo isn’t ticklish, and pooh bear hates honey, when Tigger stops bouncing and Goofy isn’t funny; when Peter Pan can’t fly, and Simba never roars, when Alice in wonderland can’t fit through small doors, when Dumbo’s ears are small, and happily ever after isn’t true, that’s when I’ll stop loving you.”

Mindy: “I choose you. To stand by your side and sleep in your arms. To be joy to your heart and food for your soul. To learn with you and grow with you, even as time and life change us both. I promise to smile with you through the good times and share your struggles in the bad times. I promise to respect you and cherish you as an individual, a partner, and an equal, knowing that we do not complete, but complement each other. May we have many adventures and grow old together.”

Tyler: " I promise to encourage your compassion, because that is what makes you unique and wonderful. I promise to help shoulder our challenges, for there is nothing we cannot face if we stand together. I promise to be your partner in all things, not possessing you, but working with you as a part of the whole. Lastly, I promise to you perfect love and perfect trust, for one lifetime with you could never be enough. This is my sacred vow to you, my equal in all things.”

Mindy: “You know me better than anyone else in this world and somehow still you manage to love me. You are my best friend and one true love. There is still a part of me today that cannot believe that I’m the one who gets to marry you.”

Tyler: " I see these vows not as promises but as privileges: I get to laugh with you and cry with you; care for you and share with you. I get to run with you and walk with you; build with you and live with you.”

Mindy: “Our open attitude toward finding adventure together in life is something that I cherish. I love it even more when those great experiences take the form of us making up a home-cooked meal together with a lot of great wine and music. I would marry you for your risotto alone!”

Tyler: " I’ve always had goals, aspirations, things I wanted to do. But when I met you, I learned what it was to dream. You dreamed of travelling, but not just out of the state; you dreamed of visiting France, Switzerland and places I’ve only read about. I’ve learned to dream of the things I deserve.”

Mindy: " So we have done a good work , I guess . "

Tyler: " I guess so ! "

Mindy: " I will make our wedding memorable , you see . People will never forget our wedding . It will be the best wedding of the decade . "

Tyler: " Can you promise me one thing ? "

Mindy: " Anything . . . . . . . . . . "

Tyler: " Promise me that you will never leave me ! "

Mindy: " I promise . . . . . . .I promise . "

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Tyler: " She promised me , she f*****g promised me . Now even for a second I realized that she was faking it . . . . . .she was faking the whole time . "

Steven: " Let her go man . She don't deserve your tears . "

Clara: " Was anything more important to you than her ? "

Tyler: " No . . . . . . . no.. . . . . . .she was the most important thing in my life . "

Clara: " What if you two ever had a disagreement on a subject , let's say a child . . . . . . . let's say she wanted and you didn't wanted . . . . . . . . What would have you done ? "

Steven: " What kind of question is this ? "

Clara: " A random question . . . . . . . . . It just came in my mind and now I am eager to have an answer . "

Steven: " Clara . . . . . . . . "

Clara: " Steven it's just a question . "

Steven: " Tyler you are not obligated to answer . "

Tyler: " It could never have been the case with . She didn't wanted to have kids . "

Clara: " And you were fine with it ? "

Steven: " What are you doing here Clara ? . . . . . . . .I am trying to divert his mind from her . Stop pulling that string . "

Clara: " Just a question , Steve , don't over-react . "

Tyler: " I don't know I have always wanted kids but I guess I would have respected her decision . "

Clara: " So you ' guess ' , you are not sure whether you would have supported her or not . "

Steven: " Stop it Clara ! "

Clara: " But Steven . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . ."

Steven: " Stop bothering him . "

Tyler lost all his faith in love .

He wondered even what love was ?

What is love ?

“Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get — only with what you are expecting to give — which is everything.” A purpose of human life, no matter who is controlling it, is to love whoever is around to be loved.

There is no safe investment. To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket — safe, dark, motionless, airless – it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. The alternative to tragedy, or at least to the risk of tragedy, is damnation. The only place outside Heaven where you can be perfectly safe from all the dangers and perturbations of love is Hell.

Love is kind of like when you see a fog in the morning, when you wake up before the sun comes out. It’s just a little while, and then it burns away… Love is a fog that burns with the first daylight of reality .

People sometimes say that you must believe in feelings deep inside, otherwise you’d never be confident of things like ‘My wife loves me’. But this is a bad argument. There can be plenty of evidence that somebody loves you. All through the day when you are with somebody who loves you, you see and hear lots of little tidbits of evidence, and they all add up. It isn’t purely inside feeling, like the feeling that priests call revelation. There are outside things to back up the inside feeling: looks in the eye, tender notes in the voice, little favors and kindnesses; this is all real evidence.

To love someone is nothing, to be loved by someone is something, to love someone who loves you is everything. And that is went wrong . He made someone his priority when he was only their option . . . . . .

Tyler: " I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together. "

Love is life ;

It is the most powerful emotion ;

But once you get betrayed in it you are forced to change all your opinions , just like Tyler was ;

Betrayal always hurts, but especially when it comes from someone you love. And that can be the most difficult pain to bear.

But there are no guarantees in love; you put your heart at risk of getting hurt by loving someone.

Still, we learn and grow through these lessons.

Love is like a precious gem you always wanted to take good care of. Once broken, it will never look the same.

Tyler picked up Mindy's picture and whispered " My world fell apart when you betrayed me in front of many. Of all the people I know, you were the least I suspected of doing it to me. I will always have a trust issue now because of a betrayal incident that happened to me before. Whatever the reason behind your betrayal, the only one that will matter to me is the fact that you just broke my trust., my heart . You know Mindy I don’t know you, I don't know why you did what you did but I think the real reason behind betrayal is greed and selfishness. I always thought that we were in a perfect relationship . . . . . . A perfect relationship is the one who never betrays each other and the one who stays true forever , so I guess we were never in one . In every relationship, trust is very important. That is also the reason why in some relationships, betrayal happens . The fact that you betrayed me means that you never valued me . You are a f*****g backstabber . . . . . Backstabbers are the most dangerous one because their action is never known. Once you break a promise, it means you betrayed not only the one you give a promise but also yourself. Not only you betrayed me Mindy but you also betrayed yourself . I hate you and I will always hate you no matter what . You are the reason I will never love again . You ae the reason I will never be happy again . "

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