Destined to be

Chapter 45

Previously ;

" . . . . . . While some bickering is okay or even healthy for your relationship , if you’re constantly fighting over misunderstandings , there’s a problem . "

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When things are strained in your relationship , you both may tend to read things into what one another say that aren’t really there .

When you’re constantly misinterpreting what the other person is saying, your relationship can’t grow in the right direction .

You can’t talk about anything without worrying that he’ll blow up or it’ll start a fight. You’re to the point that you just come home from work, swig a bottle of wine, and try to get into bed before he gets home.

Is this really how you want to live for the foreseeable future? . . . . . . . . . . . . I didn’t think so. And thanks for not answering . I was . . . . . . . . . "

Tyler: " Still not looking for an answer . . . . . . I got it now . "

Lisa: " Good . . . . .And . . . . . . . Whether it be s*x , your looks , or your ability to earn money , this guy has made it clear that he’s not emotionally invested in you . Why the hell are you wasting time on him ? If you’re in a casual relationship , that’s one thing , but if you’re hoping this guy is The One , I hate to break it to you … he’s not . You should value yourself for all the things that make you amazing .

Maybe he drinks a lot…and that’s got you drinking more than you used to . Maybe you love junk food…and now he’s packing on the pounds as he shares your bad habit . Whatever the negative behaviors , you’re bringing out the worst in each other…when you should be bringing out the best . If the sum of your parts makes you worse than the whole , you are not in the right relationship .

I think lying is truly the worst thing you can have in a relationship . If you find that you’re with someone who cannot just be honest with you , and who will lie even about the smallest thing … this is one of the biggest signs of a bad relationship . Be aware of this , too , in your own actions . So you get my point now ? "

Tyler: " May I answer . "

Lisa: " Yes you may . . . . . . . . . "

Tyler: " I do understand that you were in a bad relationship and it stinks . "

Lisa: " So that's all you got from it . . . . . . . . .I just gave you some most valueable lessons of life . "

Tyler: " I understand . "

Lisa: " No you don't . You are finding it hard to get over a girl who did wrong to you and all my life I have just met playboys so you cant understand . "

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