A Boy Named Hope

Aadii's class experience : embarrassed or guilty?

So, Hey guys! how's you doing! and a very warm welcome back to your very own novel, where you are the author itself of this amazing book named as " A Boy Named Hope". So, one day I was going through one of the best selling self help and personality development book named as THE 5 AM club by Robin sharma, in the starting of the book there was a character who was really unhappy from his life therefore, he went into an awesome seminar, where he met a very odd looking person, he was looking damn poor wearing torn out clothes for a while he was trying to ignore him, but soon his eyes glanced at his hand's wrist as he was wearing literally gold plated rolex watch. By seeing this the character started assuming literally all the dumbiest thing anyone can imagine, like - " he might have stolen it" or "what the heck is he doing with that expensive watch!" later on in the story, he found that this odd looking guy was actually a billionaire and the previous day he was wearing that kind of clothes just to keep himself grounded and let him remind from where he actually came from.

I guess most times we too do the same thing in life, as this character assumed and presented that billionaire to be a beggar or a thief! whenever we see someone wearing suit-belt or riding on KTM or having DSLR camera or anyone going to MC donalds and KFCs and having outings in these kind of brands, we mostly develop a kind of FAKE ASSUMPTION that he is really rich or what kind of mindset he would be posessing. We develop some cool mentality like "Life ho to aisi". Here i am not saying you must not go to these places or enjoy your life or ride KTMs and all and all. Because you dont even know what exactly is happening in their life! maybe they are just showing off that they are really rich (exceptions included) and in reality, everyday their parents are stressing over the lack of money or are not able to pay the bills! WHO KNOWS? 

Similarly, you might have seen many i********: reels and short stories where the person they thought would not be able to buy a car (due to outer appearance or what we say the looks!!), actually was the founder of a very known brand and he buys two of those cars placed in the showroom. So, you see here, assuming and judging is one of the best things, the human does to avoid any disagreement or arguing with anyone, because of the psychological fact that we human loves simplicity and its hard for us to tell someone exactly what we feel deep inside just because it will take time to explain ourselves clearly. Thus  assuming and judging makes our work really easier but as its cons are concerned, then people usually pays a lot price later on, for example lets take a fictional example that you are the one who wants to eat ice cream today, and i am out of town for my job or any other work and when you called me and said "Where are you? and when are you coming home? " you just said this thing and hung up the call. So, when I reached home and as you saw my hands empty, you just your temper and started yelling at me just because I did not bring you ICE CREAM. Which in reality, you just assumed that I will bring it. See, I guess you are getting my point.

Okay, now lets take my personal example regarding my outer apperance. Well, on my first day of college, I went to college in my home slippers and a lower. ( no sarcastic comment about my hood and t-shirt, I OBVIOUSLY WORE IT ). The fun fact was that I Hope, i was the only one in the whole college who wore slippers and only one among the freshers who wore lower. Now, what do you think? about me? If you saw someone like me wearing slippers and lower on the really first day? some of you will think that this guy is a fool or even call him stupid!! or some of you might think that okay! whats the big deal in wearing slippers? yeah! there is really no big deal in it and if anyone thinks that i would be ashamed or embarassed, NO way!!!! I don't even care what others think of me. As I know People are like seasons, their behaviour change everytime and their point of view can really be changed in just a few factful words! Here, I am not talking about religion and caste or gender norms or anyother type of critical and debatable topics here, i Just mean these small-small emotional and factual stuff . For example, lets take the example of media communications or what we easily say NEWS. Here, when you listen them you will start thinking like world war III will really happen just right now!! or even some emotional stuff like as a senior I tell you that, this sir or that mam is an old arrogant lady, who never listens to others and just keeps on taunting everyone about the way they behave. So, now you got a mindset that this teacher is really god damn arrogant and you wish you never get caught by her. The same moment another senior passes by so just in order to cross check whether that teacher is really that harsh? The moment you ask the senior, lets see now, you got to know that the teacher is KIND AND GENEROUS!!! and after listening this, you now have a new thought or a new mindset that this teacher is good and kind! So you see, how people's opinion really changes frequently and by just few words said by different two persons regarding the same teacher. I hope, instead of being this silly person who just listen to rumors and make up his mind regarding a specific person, you will prefer to become a kind of person who just believe his own eyes and then make their minds regarding the same and instead of judging any person by their physical appearance, try seeing deep within them if you want to become their friend! if not then who cares! just let them pass by you as a stranger as in everyday life we do. Yeah, it could be hard for a while to do this as paradigm shift does not take place in just a single day!!!!! it requires time and really great efforts, but by trying it everyday and by sometimes failing will really help you to develop a mindset that does not speak ill of others, which is the one guiding factor to become successful in life.

So, with a positive approach, lets move straight forward to our own story, about our protagonist i.e. Aditya and till now, we came to know about the school which he was put into and that embarrassment that he felt while introducing himself in front of class 9th C and we read about his old school friend named as Khushi who in really short time developed a strange and negative kind of behaviour by choosing wrong set of people in her life or what exactly we can say is that, a person becomes the average of the five friends he spend his time with. So here you got an amazing point to keep in mind to choose the right set of people who makes you think that you need to learn everyday to grow! and if your group does not contain the kind of people who talks about growth and investments and how to acquire new skills or to become your own best self then I guess you must soon change your friend circle!and its not just an option to change, it is a PRIORITY. now you might be thinking that "I don't even have friends that talk these things! they just talk about cricket and how this player was sold in crores or are busy sharing memes or just spend their time watching netflix and tons sand tons of web series in sss prime or anyother available resource.

Then, here is a really simple solution for this that stay alone!! yes i know this might sound not possible as we all are human beings and social creatures! so another solution can be to limit your time with that person if you feel they are not in your list. For example you have a very good friend, but deep inside you know that this person has limited set of believes and he does not fit in with you then instead of totally removing him try to minimise or cut the time spent with him like instead of spending 2 hours spend 30 minutes with that guy and the rest time spend with mentors! learn from their life, learn how they built that big, humongous empire read their books of self growth and develop your personality. Listen to the podcasts and interviews of them, grow yourself learn and unlearn new things! learn from the experience of others. Instead of using trial and error technique, use others experience! don't make the same mistake that others made. One thing i learned today and you too must understand this that if you want to increase your chances of getting successful then, try and commit less errors than you usually do! and this you can easily do by learning from others mistakes. Yeah! it would be great thing to reread that highlighted line above because its really worth reading it. You might be thinking that its really damn easy thing to do and everyone can do this!!! YEASS thats the beauty of these self help stuff that everyone can do this but, here is the loophole that yes it is simple but its not easy. It is no doubt they are simple but they are really not that easy! it will require consistency and patience! and in the end the results will definately be worth achieving and even if! and even if you did not achieved your goal, you will have become a really strong personality that you will say okay lets try this new thing then!!!!!or we can clearly say that what you become in pursuit of the dream.

So you see, the role of your friend circle is really very much crucial as they are the only one that you will become average of! now as I always say, you got to choose to what to focus on! changing your friend circle or.................

Well, I hope thats it for today and in our next chapter from starting onwards we will look forward in the story that what exactly happened later on in the story of our protagonist aditya and what all games he played and the kind of attitude he developed due to his very own surroundings and kind of lines he usually heard and deep down developed a new approach to see things that was really not a good part of his life and then what major setback he had to face in his life at that point and how he realised that everything that he learned was f*****g bullshit and then onwards he unlearned many things and now he changed himself because that major setback was really bad atleast for him.

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