Speaking of ginger snaps … Before her departure earlier, Mariah sent me a few iPhone photos her sister Monica took at Revelation Cove. While I sat outside the pulsating ballroom and drank Mariah’s cosmo and pondered whether I should tear off Sam’s clothes, Sam was inside dancing—with Mariah. She did say, “I will flirt with your man until you slide back in to steal him away.” A woman of her word. The grin on her face in the shot says it all. To anyone else, it might look like a wild old granny out for a quiet spin on the dance floor before she had to go upstairs and take off her pressure hose and orthotic shoes. To me, it looks like a woman who has truly lived—who knows what heartbreak and happiness are—pushing two people toward one another before time runs out. Given what happened in th

