68 ***ASHLEY*** It's already 10 pm and I'm feeling guilty and worried. I've been so caught up in the excitement of being reunited with my family that I completely forgot about my fiancé. I didn't even notice he was missing until now. The last time I saw him was when my dad called all the men to help kill the cow for the celebration. I remember he went off with my sisters' husbands, my dad, and my uncle Skeem to take care of the cow. After that, I got distracted by all the commotion and didn't think to look for him. The cow was braaied and the aunties took it to the kitchen to prepare food for everyone. I was busy chatting with my mom and sisters, enjoying the warmth and love of being together again. But now, as the night wears on, I'm starting to feel anxious. Where is he? Why didn't I

