My wife has a gay friend who is on Grindr that I did not know about. He found my account and started messaging me. We did some sexting but when he wanted to hook up I said I did not meet IRL. He kept pushing and I kept saying no. He showed the messages to my wife and they discussed it and then she confronted me. I was extremely embarrassed and scared. I explained that it was just fantasy and that I would not cheat on her.
After about an hour of talking it through, she decided that it was wrong of me to string her friend along if I had no intention of doing anything. I agreed and said I would apologize to him. She picked up her phone and started texting and basically ignoring me. After about 20 minutes, she said that he was coming over so I could apologize to his face and she could witness
