Shane and I left work after both taking a moment to collect ourselves. We met in the lobby and walked out the doors together. We walked down the street in a slightly uncomfortable silence, but started loosening up as we commented about the weather and approached a familiar dinner spot. “You don't have to give me any kind of answer right away, I just want us to start thinking about things. I don't want to intrude. I don't want you to feel like I'm coming into this and trying to steal the show. I don't know how I feel about being a dad and don't want to pretend like I know how much I'd like to see the baby. I haven't even thought about that. I just want YOU to feel supported. Just start thinking about how much you want me around.” Shane said. “Shane.” I said sternly. “I want you in his l

