Chapter Nine “Tell me about your ex,” Karen says. We’ve gone for a walk in Dolores Park and it feels right, for the first time since I arrived in San Francisco, to hold another woman’s hand in mine. For the first time, the presence of other couples around us isn’t a brutal reminder of how lonely my life has become since I moved here. “Which one?” We both know it’s a lame joke. I’ve only ever talked about Jodie. She leans her weight onto me. “Come on.” Karen has turned out to be quite the foul-mouthed little spitfire in the bedroom, always asking for more, making demands, because she knows what the consequences will be. “She wanted another child, I didn’t.” It’s how I usually sum it up. It has proven very effective to shut down conversations I don’t want to have. The first time Jodie

