I thought the hardest part was over after Claire saw my accounts. For two weeks, it seemed that way. We went to a movie and argued about the ending. She came to my apartment and helped me assemble a bookcase. I visited her school during an open studio afternoon and watched her students paint paper birds. The A8 misunderstanding came up only once. Claire apologized again, and I told her I didn't want an apology to become a ritual. I wanted us to move forward. Then Lydia called me on a Tuesday morning. "I wanted to let you know your corrected profile is live," she said. "Thank you." "We've also offered Claire a courtesy credit for the confusion." "You shouldn't have to pay her because you made an error." "It's a standard retention gesture." "Did you tell her that my information was

