‘What am I driving at? At your age Filipa you should have a laid-out plan on how you want your life to play out. I know that we play a huge role in your life and just maybe it suffocates you at times but we don’t want to repeat the same mistakes we made in the past, we acknowledge that you are human and you make mistakes but having casual s*x, that is just extreme. So, you just throw your morals out of the window all for what? A moment of pleasure and orgasms?’ I eye him, trust my granps to be blunt ‘I am not about to judge you or your choices but child you have got to make your ways right, and most importantly you need to apologize to your father because that man is still your father no matter how grown you feel you are. Are we clear?’ ‘Yes granps.’ I say ‘Do you want to go to Mongu?

