Numerous people have quoted and said.
“Anong nangyari sa muka mo”
“Ang dami mong pimples ngayon”
“Kaiiisip mo yan, di kana babalikan non?”
“Puyat ka kasi ng puyat”
“Ganda ng muka mo dati”
“Wag mo naman pabayaan ang sarili mo”
“Ang fresh mo dati”
And the likes.
I just smiled to them, and realize that being beautiful at present and at the moment is really quite hard and challenging because people are expecting you to look good all the time whenever you step out in the room. Im not saying that Im totally beautiful but it’s just the perception of people. It’s like you dont have the rights to be haggard or even ugly when people are bragging you up and see’s how beautiful you are physically. You are not entitled to have scars on your face and pimples on it because people are looking up to you whenever you’re flashing on their screen or walking down the street. Im not a public figure for the information of everybody Im just no one else in the room who just dont care about putting make up on going outside, just a bit mascara on the lashes and vaseline lip therapy on the lips?.
To cut the story short.
Having a pretty face today has no total difference being haggard or having that scars and pimples on your face tomorrow and to the following days to come. What matters the most is the genuine smile that you can offer to people whenever you are about to flash on the screen when you show your stories, whenever you walk on the street and greet people cheerfully, the laughters that you can bring to people and of course above all the kindness and a good relationship that you can offer because that is something that never fades and never gets ugly nor haggard, something that people will treasure whenever they heard your name, not being too beautiful but someone who are true and genuine? That is a simple manifestation of a good self validation.
But then again, Im still proud of my scars and pimples because we are all equally beautiful ✨