NINETEEN We join the Mins in the living room. There’s a new romantic drama on TV that’s already three episodes into the season, and Mr. Min doesn’t spare a single detail of what I’ve missed, telling me about the leads and the back story of each character on a couple of commercial breaks. “Your father did that for me, too, once,” Mrs. Min says, pointing to the screen where one of the male leads obnoxiously thrusts a bouquet of flowers in the female lead’s face. “And I demanded to know why I had to hold his flowers.” “It wasn’t like that, my love. I tripped.” “Oh, right, you tripped and shoved those flowers in my face, the very flowers I was allergic to.” “I didn’t know that at the time!” Mr. Min groans, and shushes everyone when the show comes back on. I, on the other hand, sit rigid

