Twelve minutes and the most enormous cup of to-go coffee we could find in the dining hall later, the three of us stood just inside the barn doorway, looking at the posted instruction sheets. Hour One: Women will remain in assigned seats, men will rotate. Fifteen-Minute Break Hour Two: Men will remain in assigned seats, women will rotate Fifteen-Minute Break Catching the gist, I scanned down to see the list of assigned seats and let out a relieved breath when I saw that we weren’t right next to each other, but the three of us were at least all in the same row. “We’re in row seven,” I announced, pointing to our names. “Let’s get this show on the rizzy!” Leigh clapped and rubbed both of our shoulders before leading us past the first few rows, where nervous wolves milled, most of the fe

