I have the calling of God upon my life by the election of grace, but I need to understand truly this call: marriage!
God has given you the map, it is your calling to follow it, and when emphasizing control I must stress one thing. You should not, must not, cannot and do not need to control someone else’s life. You just need to control your own. You just need to control your own. You cannot dictate what another person does, thinks or feels you can only be in charge of yourself. People may hurt you, whether intentionally or unintentionally, out of malice, indifference, or misdirection, hatred or whatever reason or circumstances. You may not be able to stop another person’s actions, but you can minimize the effect it has on you.
Sometimes it doesn’t even make sense God’s revelation per time
