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Thisisabeautifulthingbecausethisiswhatmakesherafemininecreature.But
the mere fact that she instinctively knows that she was made this way, she will
naturally seek out a mate who is strong and confident and who does not make
decisions based on the push and pull ofemotionsalone.
In other words, a heterosexual woman of high-quality really doesn’t want to be
in a relationship with another woman. She wants a man, the kind of man that is
led by unchanging ideals, values, principles, and ethics. She wants a man who
follows a code, and who doesn’t deviate from that code no matter the
circumstance.
Findingsuchamanisimportanttohersurvival,andsheinstinctivelyknowsthis.
This is why when you become insecure about something she may begin to lose
faith inyou.
Toputitsimply,whenyoubegintowaverandbecomeself-doubtingaboutyour
ability to fulfill her needs…her survival is now atstake.
Take Control of Your Emotions
Weallhaveourinsecuritiesinsomeformoranother.You’reahumanbeingand
that’sfine.Buthere’sthething,it’snottheinsecuritiesthataretheproblem,it’s
how you deal with them as a man. Do you hide them deep within yourself and
whenever pressure is applied they spring up and manifest themselves in some
uncontrollable outburst? Maybe you try to play off your insecurities by playing
tricksorlyingtoyourself?Ordoyoujustletyourinsecuritiesgetthebestofyou inanysituationandyouhavenocontroloveryourownactions?
It’sallabouthowyoudealwiththemthatmatters.
If something is really bothering you and you want to get it handled, don’t be
ashamed to get help. A great starting point is to get books on the issue that you
maybedealingwith.Agoodbookcandowondersforhelpingyoutosolveyour
inner conflicts, and there are thousands of self-help books that can give you
some pretty rock solidadvice.
Also,ifthereissomeoneyoutrustthatcanhelpyouwithanissue,thendon’tbe
afraid to ask him or her (preferably “him”) for help. If it seems to be a serious
relationshiporintimacyissue,I’dadvisecounsellingorpastoralhelpasopposed
to just anybody. Or better yet, be open and honest about it with the woman in
yourlife.
A good woman is one that will support you even though you may have
weaknessesandemotionalinsecurities.Andhersupportingyouwillbebasedon
how you decide to deal with your innerconflicts.
Remember that becoming a better man isn’t about becoming Mr. Perfect. No
man is flawless in every area of his life, and a really good woman knows this.
But believe me, an intelligent, quality woman can tell when you’re hiding
something or trying to keep a deep-rooted issue underwraps.
It’s better to be honest about something that you’re uncomfortable with than to
just let something get out of control later on . If she sees that you’re trying to
help yourself, a good woman will want to help you as well. This is especially
true if she realizes that even with your inner conflicts you’re still exercising self
discipline by adhering to the principles that you liveby.
This is the beauty of having a set of standards to followbecause your insecurities
and personal issues will never dictate your decision-making. No matter what our inner conflicts are as men, and no matter what may be going on around us, as
long as we allow our thoughts and actions to be based on sound principles for
living successfully we’ll always come out on top. Therefore, always keep in
mind that...
A good womanloves a man who lives by his virtues and not merely by his
emotions alone.
This is what she wants in a man and this is the kind of leadership she will rely on
in a relationship. It will provide her with the security she requires, and she will
consistently place her faith in your ability to fulfill her needs.
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