IRRESISTIBLE WOMAN

Chapter 1:The Feminine And Masculine Forces Of Attraction

The Attraction of Feminine Grace to Masculine

Chivalry

WhatdoesIndianaJones,JamesBond,andHanSolo(don’tpretendlikeyou’ve

never watched Star Wars before) all have in common? What they have in

common is a masculine presence that cannot be denied by anyone. There’s just

somethingabouttheircharactersthatwomenfindundeniablyattractive.

But what is it exactly?

Actually,it’snothingmorethanasimplecombinationofmaturemasculinityand

romantic allure. They appear well-rounded, adaptable, and capable of handling

just about anysituation.

They possess something that I refer to as masculine chivalry , and to a highly

feminine woman it is VERY magnetic.

Although they are just characters from popular movies, don’t be fooled. Even

fictional characters can only become popular when we can truly relate to them.

And in this case, the idea behind chivalrous male characters like these attracts

both men and women.

Men want to be them and women want to be with them, but why?

Here’s the thing. An intelligent, attractive and confident woman that has heract

together will find the masculinity of a chivalrous man highly attractive. In fact,

it’s much easier to build and maintain desire in a woman if you possess your

own unique brand of masculine chivalry since it all happens naturally . She

won’tbeabletohelpherselfaroundyoubecauseasweallknow…youjustcan’t

fightnature.

So in order to maintain high levels of attraction in a relationship, a man must continuously work on increasing his masculine polarity.

Understanding Masculine Chivalry

Now, before I even attempt to explain to you what I believe is the key to

attracting and keeping a great woman in your life, let me first say what

masculine chivalry is NOT.

It is not bending over backwards so that a woman always gets what she wants

from you.

It is not always putting her needs before yours so that she will fall inlove with

you.

Itisnotbeingsopatientandunderstandingthatyoutolerateutterdisrespectand

rude behavior from awoman.

Itisnotbeingalove-struckpuppydogthatgivesherflowersandcandyinhopes

that she’ll love youforever.

It is not being a macho jerk that displays feats of strength in order to win a

woman’s heart.

Itisnotbeinghersaviorandknight-in-shining-armoreverytimethere’sconflict

or a challenge in herlife.

It is not being a doormat that she uses to get her way.

It is not being a dominating man that rules her with an iron fist.

It is not being a “nice guy” with a heart of gold that only wants her love and

affection.

And it is not being some swashbuckling character in a movie that goes through

great lengths to rescue his woman from harm.

deep concern for others, he is not what you’d call a “nice guy” simply because

he chooses NOT to suffer or sacrifice himself just so people will like him. He

does the RIGHT thing as much as possible as opposed to the “nice” thing, even

whenitisdifficult.Butheisalsonotrude,crude,orvulgarinhisdemeanor,for

nohigh-qualitywomaninherrightminddesiressuchaman.

The man who embodies Masculine Chivalry is one who understands andvalues

commitment.Firstofall,heiscommittedtohisprinciples.Heliveshislifebya

strictcodeofhonor.Heisamanofhighidealsandhevaluesallthatisgoodand

decent in the world. This makes him noble, magnanimous, and gracious with

othersbecausehemakesdecisionsbasedonunchangingvirtues.

Secondly,heiscommittedtohispurposeinlife.Helivestoservetheworldand

to give the very best of himself in some productive pursuit. If he is a musician,

he is devoted to bringing happiness to himself and others through beautiful

sound. If he is a doctor, he is deeply passionate about his work and sees the

healing of the sick as more than a job or a career. He sees it as a calling. In this

wayheisdevotednotonlytohisprofession,buttohistruevocation,hiscalling

inlife.

Thirdly, he is committed to his relationships. Such a man learns to develop

empathy for othersand he sees it as his duty to make the world a better place to

live in for those that he loves. He abides by the golden rule that a man should

treat others in the way he would like others to treat him. And with this in mind,

he is proactive in treating his family, friends, and associates with respect,

tolerance, and honor.

Such a man can be described as fearless, dutiful, valiant, civil, faithful, honest,

and devoted. He is far from being cowardly, rude, and disloyal, as these are the

qualities of the men that he fights daily to ensure that the world is made abetter

place for not only the noble, but for the weak, the helpless, and the delicate

things inlife.

ThemostphenomenalwomeninthisworldareHIGHLYattractedtosuchmen.

Theyaredesperatelywaitingformorementostepupandtransformthemselves

intothekindofmenthattheycanfullygivethemselvesto.

Yes, you heard me right. High-quality women are DESPERATELY waiting for

men who embody masculine chivalry . Even if you’re already in a relationship

withanamazingwoman,youcancontinuallydevelopyourselfintoabetterman

and make her see you as both an irreplaceable lover and an irrefutable leader.

She’llfindherselfevenmoreattractedtoyouasyouconsciouslychoosethepath

that leads toward mature masculinity. And if she’s truly a phenomenal woman

you’llfindyourselfbeingtreatedlikeakingmoreandmoreeveryday.

And what guy in his right mind doesn’t want that?

The Graceful and Feminine Specimen

I’mattractedtowomenwhofullyembracetheirfemininity.Ijustcan’thelpit.I

lovethegraceful,warm,andmysteriousnatureofawomanwhocanwalkintoa

room and command attention without saying a word. I’ve been in situations

where I just knew that a highly feminine, graceful woman was walking behind

me,withoutevenseeingheratfirst.Iknowitsoundskindofstrange,buthere’s

the thing. When you know what you’re looking for it tends to jump out at you

fromallangles.Andthat’showIrespondtohighlyfeminine,passionatewomen

as they truly do stand out from thecrowd.

A woman like this usually has her act together. She is very self-possessed and

prizes her dignity. Such a woman loves herself, loves people, and is honest,

loyal,charming,seductive,intelligent,resourceful,andveryattractive.Sheisthe

virtuous, high-quality specimen that most men would give anything to be with

and keep in their lives. And get this…these kinds of women are helplessly

attractedtoamanwhoembraceshismasculinitythroughanobleandchivalrous

character.

Now,don’tgetconfusedhere.Justbecauseawomanembracesherfemininityin

agracefulmannerdoesn’tmeanthatsheisstrictlyagirlygirl.Infact,shecanbe

quite versatile. To be honest with you, a woman can be a stunning athlete, yoga

chick, attorney, or entrepreneur and still possess feminine gracefulness. It’s all

about the way she carries herself. It’s the things that she says and doesn’t sayto

you and also how she behaves in socialsettings.

Her gracefulness shows in the way she treats the men in her life, all the way

from her father to you. And only the most phenomenal women will treat men,

especiallythemasculineandchivalrousones,withrespectandadmirationforall

that is good inthem.

Femininegracesurpassesjusthermanners.Infact,hergracefulnessstemsfrom

her own acceptance of who she is and what she wants out of life.She’s

comfortablewithbeingawomanandembracesitfully.Shecanexudeakindof

charmthatmostmen,especiallythemasculinechivalroustype,findirresistible.

She’s happy being a woman, and she is happy to be with a man who gives her

full reign to doso.

Attracting and keeping a woman like this will all depend on one thing. There’s

one thing that you possess as a man in which she’s interested in more than

anything else that you have to offer her.

And that one thing is essentially...your character .

What Women Really Want FromMen

The age-old question that has been asked by men all over the world is this:

What is it that women want from us?

To be honest with you, the answers are endless. Because there are billions of

women in the world they all may want different things, a lot of different things

in fact. However, when it all boils down to it, a man is simply a man and a woman is simply a woman. Being the human creatures that we are, there are

certain things that both men and women want that, for the most part, are non

negotiable.

These are the built-in needs that arise from both our primal desires and our

human nature. Therefore, it’s important to frame the question of “what women

want?” based on a woman’s primal desires and needs. Why? Well, it’s simply

because the answer will always be the same, for EVERY woman. Basing our

query on human nature and instinct will bring about a bit more consistency in

figuring out exactly what it is that a quality woman wants from and in a man.

So to simplify things a bit, the question that men should ask is this:

What things do women want from men that can be considered non-negotiable,

universal, and primal?

Now that we have the RIGHT question, let me give you the RIGHT answer:

The main thing that a woman wants from a man is the experience of feelinglike

a woman. She wants to lose herself in her femininity, and the only way she can

feelthisfeminineexperienceiswhenamanactslike…aman.

Thereyouhaveit.Hopefully,Ijustsavedyoufromyearsandyearsofconfusion

andworry.

And if I did…you’re welcome.

Butseriously,womenarefemininecreaturesbynatureandinstinctivelydesireto

be treated as such, no matter what society may say. It’s the natural order of

things, and so the more feminine a woman feels around a man, the more

comfortable, secure, and desirable she will feel. It is this experience of feeling

like a creature of feminine beauty that women of today are yearning for from

men.

Heard that?

The woman of your dreams is yearning for the kind of man that can make her

feel like a woman. And she has no choice but to respond to the man that can

trigger this feeling within her.

Ah, nature is a beautiful thing isn’t it?

Thismeansthatbydevelopingthekindofmasculinequalitiesofcharacterthata

womanisHARDWIREDtoRESPONDto,you’llNATURALLYmakeyourself

absolutely irresistible and irreplaceable toher.

The Masculine Character and Women

Themoremasculineamanisthemorefemininehewillmakethewomenaround

himfeel.Andthetermmasculineinthiscasereferstoaman’scharacterandhis

behavior. The best way for a man to develop a more masculine disposition is to

consciouslygoaboutbuildinghischaracterandimprovinghispersonality.

In other words, as a man, it’s important for you to take control of your life,take

responsibility for your thoughts and actions, and learn to properly manage your

emotions.

This is as straightforward as it gets.

If you want to really impress a woman, or rather, the ideal kind of high-quality

woman that you want to attract, the first thing you must do is focus on building

your character and making yourself much more masculine in a natural sense.

This is the single most important thing you can do in this life. Nothing is more

attractive to a quality woman than a man who places a high value on thingslike

honesty and integrity, and other qualities of a sterling, manly character. And

while physical strength does count for a lot in stimulating a woman’s physical

attraction, keeping her attracted over the long-term means that a man must also

possessstrength-of-characterandresilience(twothingsthatallwomentestmen

for throughout the course of arelationship).

A woman wants to know that she can besure of her experience with you. She

wants to know that she can depend on you while times are good. For example,

shewantstobesureofyourabilitytohandletemptationifyou’refacedwiththe

opportunity to do something underhanded in order to gain something you want.

In this instance, she wants to be sure of your personal integrity , as she hopes

that you won’t do something that doesn’t align with your beliefs just to make a

profit or enjoy a moment of fleetingpleasure.

This is VERY important to her.

On the other hand, a woman also wants to know that she can rely on you to

handle conflict when times aren’t so good. In other words, she wants to be

assuredthatshe’swithaMANthroughandthrough.Shedoesn’twanttofeelas

ifyoumightonlybereliablewhenthingsaregoingwellandthenfallapartatthe

seamswhenconflictarises.You’llenduplookinglikeanincompetentlittleboy,

andtrustme,thatwon’tbeafunexperienceforeitherofyou.

Awomanwantstoknowthatyoucanmakeherfeeldesirable,secure,feminine,

andbeautiful.Shewantstoknowthatyou’rethekindofguyshecangrowwith,

one who can help her grow and reach her full potential as a woman. And the

more masculine you are in character, the easier it will be to naturally make her

feel thisway.

And when it comes to the romance department, the masculine man is a

chivalrous and irresistible lover to his woman. He knows how to fulfill herboth

physically and emotionally, and he makes it his duty to ensure that her deepest

needsforphysicalandemotionalintimaciesareconsistentlymet.

A worthy challenge for any man, is it not?

How to Build a Powerful Masculine Character

Character building for a man is perhaps the most important task he could ever undertake in his life. I know it was and still is, for me at least.

AssoonasIbegantofocusonchangingcertainaspectsofmycharacter,Ibegan

toseetheresultsinmylifechangeaswell.Andbelieveitornot,thekindoflife

you lead and the kind of woman you’ll attract and keep will all depend on who

you are as aman.

All of your results in life will be based on who you are at your masculine core.

Your train of thought, your automatic reactions to situations, and how youdeal

withconflictandotherpeoplearealllinkedtoyourcharacter.Womenaremuch

more attracted to a man’s character and personality than by his looks,

possessions, or achievements. Even more so, high-quality, intelligent women,

thosewithmoreexperienceindealingwithmen,tendtohaveaninherentability

to see a man for what he truly is on the inside, regardless of the halo effect

created by his physical appearance or the material representations of his high

status.

Armed with this knowledge, it is of best interest for you to focus on the

development of your character and personality first and foremost.