CHAPTER EIGHT
How to make a depressed person open up:
Approaching a depressed person with empathy and sensitivity is crucial. Here are some suggestions rooted in biblical principles:
1. Create a Safe Space:Emphasize a non-judgmental and supportive atmosphere. Proverbs 17:17 encourages being a friend who loves at all times; let them know you care and are there to support without condemnation.
2. Listen Actively: Following the biblical wisdom found in James 1:19, be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry. Give the person your full attention, allowing them to express their feelings without interruption.
3. Express Empathy: Reflect on the biblical concept of comforting others as outlined in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4. Let the person know that you understand their pain, expressing empathy in a manner that aligns with your faith.
4. Share Personal Struggles: If appropriate, share your own struggles and how your faith has been a source of strength. This vulnerability can create a connection and make the person feel more comfortable opening up.
5. Use Scripture: Share relevant verses that offer comfort and hope. Psalm 34:18 and Philippians 4:6-7, mentioned earlier, could be shared to convey the idea of finding solace in God's presence.
6. Pray Together: Offer to pray with the person. This can be a powerful way to connect spiritually and provide a sense of comfort. Matthew 18:19-20 highlights the potency of prayer when two or more are gathered in Jesus' name.
7. Encourage Professional Help: Remind them that seeking professional help is a sign of strength. Proverbs 15:22 emphasizes the wisdom in seeking counsel, and this may include mental health professionals.
8. Be Patient: Recognize that opening up may take time. Ecclesiastes 3:1 reminds us that there is a season for everything, including a time to speak and a time to be silent.
Remember, while incorporating biblical principles, it's essential to approach the situation with genuine care and respect for the individual's feelings and boundaries.
Now let us look at Sarah's story and how to help a depressed person from the view of her story points.