“Okay, great.” Even though her words are positive, her tone has a slightly negative note, and I wonder if she was hoping that I would order her around and push for us to meet sooner. One thing she needs to learn about me is that once a boundary is put in place, I'm not going to push it unless I know it's a lie. Her telling me she doesn't want me is not true. I'll push that boundary until I can prove it to her. But if she's not willing to meet until a certain time, date, or at a certain place, I'm not going to push that boundary.
The fun part of a game of cat and mouse like this is being the cat, anticipating the next move, surprising the mouse, and pouncing when she knows it’s coming but is powerless to stop me - because she doesn't wish to stop me.
“I will see you then. In the meantime,
