“It’s like, for us, it’s all or nothing. For guys like us, I mean. Then that made me think about how I lump you and me together. How I totally get the idea of going slow and being serious about somebody, ‘cause I’m that way. A lot of the men I know are. Sure, they f**k around or did, but that’s only because they were hunting for something. It didn’t mean anything, those times, but then one day, they find somebody, and it means everything.
“I thought about how I’m like that too, and the thing we’ve all got in common is that we’ve been hurt. Not broken-up-with kind of hurt. I mean harmed. Damaged. I mean, that’s why my friends and I, we all do Scene. We use it to build trust. We establish boundaries that were broken by either somebody or some circumstance that should never have broken them
