Dreams vs Reality

chapter 4:happiness

Happiness is feeling we all desire and everything we do is driven by the need to accumulate happiness. Sometimes you don't realize that whatever you do is because of two things happiness and the need to learn something new.

The world seems simple , the rich controls everything and the poor are just pawns in the game of chess played by the middle class and created by the rich . They donate millions to orphanages or poor people so that people are blinded by their kindness that their forget to ask the question why .

Something everyone should realize is that greed and being self-centered is something each human is capable of this includes the rich and the poor and let's not forget those who play the game the middle class. There is nothing you do in life that doesn't have the question why . You might not know why but you brain does .

People seek happiness and we end up destroying other people because we don't care . We want our happiness and simply doesn't matter who dies in the fire or process . The world has programed people to acknowledge that we must think in a certain way and that the way is that success is everything .

Why don't you ask yourself why rich people still want to accumulate more riches and poor people want to accumulate riches. We have been told or simply just born in the world why people choose satisfaction over happiness, desire over happiness and short term happiness over true happiness. Money doesn't buy happiness, it's not something only poor people say because they don't want feel bad about their poverty or something the middle class say to deceive the rich and poor or what rich people say to make themselves feel better. But it's simply the truth happiness is a feeling that makes even the sad days feel happy .

It's not magic or anything it's just that happiness creates memories , it's creates laughter and hope that life will get better and that the storm shall come to pass . But what money buy is power , greed , desire to control, short term happiness, deceiving skills and regret.

Money buys you a car that gets you respect and control but that brings you a feeling that makes you believe that you are better than others and yourself . When you chase money it's no longer about making your life better but the need to be better than the person you were yesterday and something I realized about the person you were yesterday is that he or she is better than the person you are today and sometimes the person you are today is better than the person you were yesterday. It's because the person you were yesterday knew you better than the person you are today .

It's the person you were yesterday that made you grow and you learnt from the person you were yesterday not because you can't learn today but life has changed . People don't know themselves anymore it's like the parade of race . People have defined themselves through their race and belief . It's the same way that people are living today we no longer have uniqueness but separation because uniqueness is no longer a term that describes and celebrate differences between things , people and mentality.

But uniqueness is now a way to judge and try change people because of the differences between everyone that's similar to you and the unique individual. People say they want racism to end but we still have the word race . You

can't say you no longer want people to produce sugar but we still plant sugar canes , people will use sugar cane to produce sugar because it's a way to ensure that people have sweet cup of tea. The same way you simply can't say you don't want racism but still have race , people will use the term race to create racism to simply feel superior so life can be sweet like a cup of tea during a Sunday morning breeze.

Science has proven that humans are all from Africa and when the moved to other part of the world, the skin colour and properties of the body changed . So that is just differences we should celebrate because we are the same , who know that this means we are all humans , we inhale oxygen and exhale carbon dioxide. People don't want to be the same that's why we are always trying to figure out the difference between races . It's not our fault as human beings that our brain likes familiarity .

This outlining of how differences and race leads to racism is just a way I can outline how happiness and the need to be better than yourself and others leads to the need to accumulate riches . A fact that remains is that happiness can be achieved whether you are rich or poor but you need to realize and emphasis that happiness can't be bought . Happiness takes place when you forgive yourself for your mistake, love yourself and try to make yourself better , realize that sometimes you don't have to be perfect ,give others around you and also yourself time , laughter is important and memories and mistakes are important for growth.

I can't say don't chase money or anything but remember to do things that make you feel whole and happy. It doesn't hurt to check time to time if the things that money can't buy are still there. Protect the things that matter to you because money remains behind with no memory of you and your existence because it's not human but a person remains with the memory of you and makes sure your existence was worth it .

Money may buy certain things but those things are worldly things , there are material things. If you buy a car now it's going to depreciate in a way you won't believe it's value . You regret buying that car so after a lot of thoughts you decide I am going to appreciating assets . You buy a house but natural disasters are just natural and nobody conspired against you .

But it's risks and they have to be taken but a person may be more complicated but they are more predictable . A human will show signs that they want to deceive you , it's just your problem if you can't read between the lines or just simply the words written with bright red on the wall.

Money can buy control , security and comfort not happiness because happiness is in another dimension .

Have you wondered why people choose short term satisfaction over happiness. It's not that they don't want happiness . Are you crazy everyone wants happiness , who does just want to be happy for the rest of dear life and that's simply true but happiness takes time . Happiness challenges beliefs , happiness doesn't want people to think outside the box because there's no box , happiness wants effort, trust and doesn't want people to overthink anything . Happiness creates no control over others or yourself, it doesn't give comfort but wants you to seek comfort and it's doesn't give security.

Humans or maybe just the brain doesn't want like unpredictable circumstances and Happiness wants you seek and explore possibility of everything that exist.