There is no point in going to a therapist if you aren't going to be honest so I told her what I had been thinking about. She was non-judgmental but urged me to be careful and not just about jumping out of an airplane. I was still recovering from what I mostly viewed as a betrayal. Casual dating and maybe casual s*x would be a good idea when I felt ready, but I probably wasn't ready to commit to a new relationship. I didn't feel ready for casual s*x yet, let alone for something as complicated as experimenting with a same-s*x relationship. Even if I was serious about that, she warned me that I could end up doing to some other woman what had been done to me by leading someone on. Once again, she gave me good advice and left me with a lot to think about.
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