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ITRODUCTION: it is generally believe that the youthful age is the age of choices. It is the age that choices we make determine o

ITRODUCTION: it is generally believe that the youthful age is the age of choices. It is the age that choices we make determine our chances in life .In my own opinion, it is possible that if you make wrong choices, something can be fundamentally wrong with your life forever. This is why every youth must do everything possible to get things right in their youthful years. You will agree with me that many people whose lives have become a model both in the Bible and in the contemporary world have something in common that is they get it right in their youth. David, joseph, Daniel, Deborah the wife of lapidoth, adeboye kumuyi, oyedepo to the greatest leader of all time JESUS CHRIST. They all get it right in their youthful years.

It is not that choices finishes at this age, because as one grows older you keep making choices. But most choices you make when you are older are polishing choices you have made in your youthful years .

So, if you make wrong choices you will run into terrible chances in life. This is why it is important to look into the choice of life partner. There are fundamental things we really need to established along the way and they are ;

-choices that affect one’s destiny are made in the youthful years

-choices made now are mostly irreversible, irretrievable and permanent

-damages incurred in your youthful years are also irretrievable.

So, one of the crucial choices is the choice of a life partner .actually, it is not wrong for a youth to be having the feeling of who he or she needs to marry in life. This is not wrong at all and still want to emphasis it that nothing is wrong with you – I mean it is not a carnal feeling it is just because you are now entering into the level where it is inevitable for you to think about it .And I want you to know that God himself is the one that arranges each segment of your life and he has also given you interest to make this kind of choice.

So, since marriage is not temporary estate in which you can enter and come out at will without any damage to your life. It then become utmost necessity to take proper guidance from God who see the end from the beginning before making the choice. There are several things that if you choose wrongly you can easily change it. One of those things is career .I have known someone who study MLS in the university and worked for three years, and he later come back to write jamb and enrolled in pre-degree because he felt he should be a doctor .so, you can see that the choice of career as important as it is if you make mistake you can always change but not without some damages and setback but you can always change it . But there is choice that you cannot change without a permanent damage to your life and it is the choice of a life partner. This choice is always once in a lifetime and once it is made, it is until death do you apart. There are several people who will tell you that it does not matter, you can look and pick and if you don’t like he or she anymore, you can dump and pick another .these are the wicked teachers who have lost the bearing of their home and can be refers to as “ajegbodo tin wa eni kunra”. Do not listen to them. No man on earth who has a good home will give you such a wicked counsel .Anytime you make a wrong choice of marriage it will leave you with permanent problems.so this is why this choice of life partner demand a magnitude of instructions and a step by step approach for us as youths which you will find in this book.