my husband is different

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Peter Pan syndrome (Peter Pan syndrome) is a term used for men who are adults, but still show behavior or attitudes like children.

This term was first introduced by Dr. Dan Kiley in a book called Peter Pan Syndrome: Men Who Have Never Grown Up, which was published in 1983.

Adult men should be able to live independently and not depend on other people. However, this man with a condition which is also known as little space syndrome has the opposite trait.

People with this syndrome do not act according to their age. They tend to be independent and very childish, just like the Peter Pan character in fictional stories.

There is no single definite cause for this syndrome. However, the factor that most often causes Peter Pan syndrome is parenting style.

Generally, parents who are overprotective (overprotective) can make children grow up with a fear of taking responsibility and commitment to others.

Children who are overprotected by their parents also fail to develop the skills needed to face the challenges of real life.

As a result of this overprotective parenting style, as adults children often feel anxious and insecure about what they are doing.

This heavy pressure creates a feeling of "wanting to run away from responsibility" so that the person wants to return to childhood without the burdens of life.

Yes, that's what's happening to Raka. making the child unable to develop and instead become someone who cannot be called normal like an adult man of his age

look at what raka is doing now, even after returning home which was given by his parents as a wedding gift and also aghata the man immediately sat on the floor, playing with his toy car.. really like a child.. meanwhile Aghata was busy arranging her clothes in the cupboard and also tidying up her other things. She chose a room upstairs, while letting her husband occupy the downstairs room, she didn't care whether he wanted to or not, but in fact he didn't to sleep with that man

''Aghata, aghata..'' the door to the room was knocked several times quite loudly, at the same time his name was also being called non-stop, causing the packing event to be totally disrupted

'''God, forgive me in my previous life if I really did something wrong, but please don't punish me by sending a creature like a raka to be my husband..'' she begged desperately, despite the fact that she was very emotional right now. .

''Why else?'' he jerked full, staring disapprovingly at the man who stood in front of him with a full smile and sparkling eyes.

''Let's play with Raka, accompany Raka to play Aghata, Raka is afraid to be alone downstairs... Come on, Aghata accompanies Raka.'' said Raka ignoring his wife's anger, he really wanted to have friends and be accompanied when playing

''Let's go downstairs, let's play with Raka..'' Aghata asked him again, now even with great enthusiasm he took his wife's hand and asked her to come down

One hard kick managed to break the grip of the hand released.

''Can you stop bothering me or not... why is your life so complete, why do you have to be like a child like this... you are not ashamed of being big like that, you can just whine and act like a child...' shouted Aghata passionately, really really annoyed,

spilling everything that he had been holding back for a long time, the hand holding let go in an instant.. raka immediately tensed in place, couldn't believe getting a reply like that..

raka's hands shook quickly before the end of the cry spilled too,.. yes raka cried.. not crying again but the man roared loud enough like a child.. really troubled Aghata's mind ,,

"Sorry, I'm sorry, Aghata, don't snap at Raka like that, why is Aghata angry and angry at Raka?" asked the man while sobbing,

' you ask why I hate you so much !! the answer is because I hate you, you know hate, that's what I feel right now '' snapped Aghata, instead of apologizing or regretting making her husband cry, but in fact she came back to make her husband's heart hurt again

"Aghata hates Raka, why?" The innocent question slid from Raka's lips by itself, asking for clarity and certainty about the reasons that made his wife hate herself.

''Because you are stupid... stupid and don't understand anything...'' answered Aghata without the slightest burden and guilt.

''I'm sorry, for making it difficult for Aghata, sorry for being stupid... Forgive me, Aghata...'' he begged with a stagnant breath..

Aghata rolled his eyes in embarrassment.. this is just the beginning after this, almost all of his life will be spent taking care of this stupid man in front of him..

''Go, I don't want to see your face..'' Aghata chased away without mercy.. making the man whose shoulders were shaking so much nodded softly, then dragged his feet away from the presence of his wife.. a soft breath came out of his mouth aghata... he was about to go back into the room and wanted to close the door but a loud crying sound from downstairs.. managed to get him out of his room again..

it must be her husband

''It's really bothering him...'' he said holding back his anger with tightly clenched hands, from where he was now standing which was already at the end of the stairs, after running a little before he could see his husband sitting on the floor kicking kicking the air with its long legs, crying like a baby who forgot to be fed..

''Shut up'' shouted Aghata getting impatient, making Raka immediately turn his head with his breath stagnating..

''Why aghata?'' he asked sadly,,

aghata cursed when he heard the question why? while the biggest reality is he.. he is the source of the problem..

"Aghata needs a brother, huh?" asked the man again, standing up, wiping his own snot marks and tears on his cheeks

''Shut up you, shut up I said ..'' pressed Aghata to clarify his request at the beginning earlier

''Sorry..'' the man whispered again, his breathing was still up and down and irregular..

''Stop like a child...;''' again and again the same warning given by aghata to her husband