I want to address my comments just to her. If I can gain her trust, I can turn the tables on her right here. I get an IM from her almost immediately. BBBarbie: So what do you mean control? HippieGirl: First, thank you for being interested in an old woman's perspective. Back during the original s****l revolution in the sixties, we didn't settle for turning guys on and leaving them to their own devices. We f****d! BBBarbie: Yeah, and you all got f****d! So what? Where's the control in that. You don't know how it feels to have guys lusting over what they can't have. HippieGirl: Of course, I do. But think about the control you can exert over someone who's had his d**k where it doesn't belong. I once f****d a married guy who ended up doing whatever I wanted, just so I'd keep our little trys

