Scouts of the broken past.

Chapter Three

Remove the word control in your vocabulary

Controlling things were similar to resisting, It is bad for you, just let things flow.

Start practicing the mindset of "It is what It is." 'Cause being able to accept things is one of the most where people are struggling about.

Acceptance is a very hard thing to do in this world, you've got hurt? Broken? In pain? You're suffering? It may be hard for you to accept the fact that you're experiencing those but you have no choice, just accept It.

It is hard for all of us to accept things that didn't turned out the way we wanted to, but sometimes we have no other choices but to accept It.

Controlling something which is cannot be controlled is the most foolish thing that you would ever do.

One of those are;

People's perception of you.

Your future.

The struggles that the world will give you.

Failure.

Hate.

You can't control what the other people think about you, the idea of them that they made inside of their mind about you is out of your control, whatever you do, people will always talk s**t about you, and you can't control It.

People are full of jealousy, and hatred It is part of our human nature. So why bother to change just because of what they said and what are their perceptions of you?

Even you yourself, you're also struggling to know yourself more... What's the point of listening to them when It would not cost you any good?

If you're doing good, they will talk about your past, your mistakes and your own failures. It's because they are intimidated of the changes you made about yourself.

If you're doing bad, of course they will judge you, and they will feel good about It, 'cause It would make them think that they are better than you.

Just be yourself, what people are thinking and perceptions about you is the thing that you cannot control about.

You should be happy when they talking about you, wanna know why? 'Cause they're spending some time just to talk about you while you? You're just living a life, people who talk about somebody's way of living doesn't have the life to talk about, and doesn't have somebody who's gonna listen about the life they were living about.

All of us expect and think of somebody, all of us judge, and nobody can't deny this fact. It is part of the human nature, we all judge.

And because people were judging us we may also judge them by what they're saying about you, take a look at this.

Someone spread a rumor about you that you were caught cheating, of course you'll defend yourself, you're gonna spread some facts about the person who spread rumors about you, you hate him/her for spreading rumors but you're doing the same thing... In a different aspect though 'cause you're spitting facts but s/he doesn't.

See? We are all hypocrites, you're gonna judge someone because s/he judge you. You're gonna dislike someone 'cause they hate you. All of us, there's no person who's good as the prophets or something that is good to some of the religions.

By judging someone who judge you, It made you hypocrite. Oh okay, I am hypocrite, what should I do then when people are talking s**t about me? I'm gonna let It happen? I am not holy as you think.

Yes, all you have to do when someone's talking s**t about you is to let them, if they don't like you, you don't have to care. Focus on your goals, don't waste your time arguing with some people who doesn't want to listen on your opinion.

Not giving some care, is a great movement. If you don't give any reaction It would piss them off, It would triggers them to act more, they were talking s**t because they want you to get distracted, they want you to hate them, they want you to react.

Don't give them the satisfaction they want, give them nothing.

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Your future? You can't control It, you can't expect It, you can foresee It and also, you can't predict It.

Future is unexpected, no one can predicts It, no one would be able to control It.

The less we expect the more greater the things are gonna become, the less we control something the more we are able to understand and see the bigger picture.

Have you ever said to yourself that in ten years you'll live the life you wanted to, but ended up doing the same s**t everyday? Wow, what a clownery.

You can't expect and control something you're not working hard about, and even if you do some hard work, you can't still control the future 'cause it has some unpredictable things that would always freak you out!

Just live in the present, and stop thinking and controlling your future, It would do nothing good to you, you'll only ended up disappointed.

If you want you're future to be like this (anything that comes unto your mind) and you really want It, you're gonna focus on that right?

It's a good thing, but staying focus unto something would make you waste some opportunity that would come unto your way.

Let's imagine you're on your way to work and all of your attention were on your way, your head were looking up straight to the one way direction, you're controlling your body and because of that someone bump into you coming from behind, but you're not paying attention and in the end both of you got lay down on the floor.

Being focus on something is good, but being free as a water and being able to move as freely as you want because you're not controlling something is much better.

Future and life has a lot of options, don't just focus unto one thing, you should be open in experiencing other things.

I am not saying that controlling and wanting your future to be stable and focusing on one goal is a bad thing, all I want you to understand is being free and being able to adapt is what would make your life more greater 'cause you'll be able to experience different things and you'll be able to gain some knowledge out of it.

Future are unpredictable, past are cannot be changed but present is something you should be more focus about. Let your mind and soul to be as freely as water for you to become more knowledgeable and more capable of learning and adapting in things.

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The struggles that the world will give you? You have no choice but to face It. Nobody can choose their own problems. Nobody can also control It but they can choose on how they would react.

Nobody can say this to the world "Hey! I want my struggles to become so easy." Yeah, s**t don't think that you're living in some fantasy thay in just one wish from the genie or something It would eventually happen.

"Hey! I want some financial problems." Yeah but when you do, you're gonna struggle and blame the world for giving It to you.

"Hey! I want some mental health problem, is much easy than the other." Seriously!? Stupid. Some people are thinking that mental health problem is just nothing, well to tell you all about It. Mental health problems cost some life to lose.

Nobody can choose their struggles in life to become easy or hard, and nobody can also select It. All of us don't have the chance to choose what to struggle but we all can choose on how we react upon It. How we view and how we fight against It.

Don't ask for the world for a better struggles, just give yourself some time and think some better solutions.

Don't ask for something, do some hard work and give It to yourself.