“See if things will still work out. Maybe she’s simply got a lot on her mind lately. But don’t waste too much time if it seems irredeemable. There’s no point beating a dead horse. There are plenty more fish in the sea.” She smiled. “If I think of any other aphorisms, I’ll be sure to throw them your way.” He smiled back at her. “Thanks. And you’re right. I’ve been so stressed out about our relationship and wondering what’s going to happen. I haven’t been sleeping, and I’ve lost weight. But I’m coming around to the point where I’m like . . . I don’t have any control over this situation, you know? I can’t make Anna do anything. I can’t even influence her one way or another. So whatever is going to happen is just going to happen. And weirdly, that’s sort of comforting to me.” influence“Qué s

