Chapter 1 My womanfriend, Trinh, and I have been together for a small over two years now. We met and started dating during our sophomore year in college; we took each other’s maidenhood a few months into the relationship. While the logistics of having s*x with Trinh hasn’t always been easy — we don’t live together and each of us has roommates — the s*x itself has usually been satisfying, at least I think so, and Trinh seems to think so, too, from what I can tell. I can’t always say I’ve been the most imaginative lover, but hey, one doesn’t necessarily have to be good at s*x to enjoy it. “Vanilla” is okay… and “vanilla” is pretty much what it had been. But the “vanilla-ness” of our s*x life ended a few months ago — thanks to my friend Jeff and his womanfriend Daisy. I met Jeff a quarter

