Jenn It turns out that there is more to do on the island than make love. With our hands joined, we continue our walk exploring the beach. The walk isn't only to enjoy the beauty of the island but to do what Dr. Kizer recommended, to talk. “Paul?" I ask with my toes in the sand and the sea breeze and sun on my face. “Yes?" “Do I need a safe word?" He stops in his tracks with our hands still joined. Looking back from where we've come, I notice our footprints in the sand and wonder about this change in my husband. Can we go back, and do I want that? “How do you know about safe words?" “Books," I answer honestly. Richard didn't believe in them. He said a true submissive would never use one anyway. He said he could choke her until she was at death's door, and she wouldn't ask her Do

