"Innalillah wainna ilaihi rajiun! Dijatu, how, why, when? When did it start?" Ammi's panicky voice indicated that she was crying too. Aunty Dijatu took her time crying before she finally answered "It's been happening for a while now.. About five months ago. The first time he started, I objected but then he told me that he got married to me because he wanted a woman that will be able to the task, that he knows we educated people are adventurous and like to explore. When I still objected, he got angry and told me to stay put and enjoy as the angels record my curses till morning as I refused to grant my husband his rights, so I obliged, I don't want to be cursed" "Oh no Dijatu, I can't believe you're talking like this, like you're not learned in Islamic Law, we did all these things back in

