"Oh no Maami, don't talk like that I beg of you. Please don't doubt that which you gave birth to, she will be hurt when she learns of this. Please don't think so of her." "Omo mi what will I say. That man is uncultured, look at the way your husband knelt down to greet me, he even sat on the floor while talking to me. What does that show? That he takes me as a mother and respects me. Bukola doesn't even know I was coming today until she peeped through her window and saw an airport taxi drop me. I met her there with the man, what's his name, Gadofi? Yes Gadofi. Can you believe he sat there crossed legged and casually said 'good day ma' good day, to your prospective mother in-law you're meeting for the first time, eh mi me. I know the Jukuns, we once stayed in Takum barracks Taraba, those

