ZARA I have been under an immense amount of stress today , since I started dating Tom I had not been so stressed , somehow he had managed to calm me down and give me some peace of mind , before him , I slept little or badly , ate at odd hours , and spent all of my days relying on caffeine to get the energy needed to complete all the tasks of the day; however , since I have been spending most of my nights with him , I have been able to sleep longer and better , I wake up more relaxed , and surprisingly , with more energy. And my new attitude does not seem to have gone unnoticed by the people around me , I have noticed how gradually they have stopped behaving so fearfully around me , and it seems that they feel more confident when they speak to me , which makes me a bit happy , becau