9 DAPHNE Our plane descended past the golden glowing high rises visible through the first-class window, and I clamped down hard on Tony’s hand. The ascent taught me turbulence was not my friend. The aircraft lurched skyward, and I slapped my other palm on his arm, squeezing. “Hey. It’s okay. It just bucks a little when we land. Airplanes are safer than cars.” “Except if you do crash, you fall down and go splat,” I pointed out. We didn’t though. I survived my first plane ride. Tony led a very different life than mine. A first-class, well-traveled life. Standing beside him in the VIP line at the car rental, I noticed how my velour tracksuit differed from his business attire. The women he hung out with didn’t dress or act like me: a small-town hick with a degree. But he never caused

