Nad and Ars had been dating for a few months now and their relationship was going strong. They had gone on numerous dates, shared countless laughs, and had some serious talks about their future together. However, there was one topic that they had yet to address: their exes.
It was a sensitive subject for both of them, as they had both been hurt in their previous relationships. Nad had been cheated on by her ex-boyfriend, while Ars had been in a toxic and emotionally abusive relationship with his ex-girlfriend. They had never really talked about their exes since they started dating, but it was something that they both knew needed to be addressed.
One evening, Nad and Ars were sitting on the couch, watching a movie when the topic of their exes came up.
Nad: "I know we haven't really talked about our exes, but I think it's something we need to do."
Ars: "Yeah, I know what you mean. It's just a touchy subject for me."
Nad: "I understand, it is for me too. But I think it's important that we discuss it, so we can move forward in our relationship."
Ars: "Okay, you're right. Let's talk about it."
Nad: "Well, I was in a relationship for a few years before I met you. He cheated on me, and it was really hard to get over."
Ars: "I'm sorry that happened to you. I can't imagine how painful that must have been."
Nad: "Yeah, it was tough. But I'm glad I went through it, because it led me to you."
Ars: "And I'm grateful for that too. My ex-girlfriend was emotionally abusive. She would belittle me and make me feel like I wasn't good enough. It took a toll on my self-esteem and mental health."
Nad: "I'm sorry you had to go through that. You are more than enough, Ars. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise."
Ars: "Thanks, Nad. I'm glad I have you now."
They sat in silence for a few moments, taking in what the other had just shared.
Nad: "You know, talking about our exes has made me realize something."
Ars: "What's that?"
Nad: "I think I've been holding onto some of the pain from my previous relationship. And it's not fair to you, or to us. I need to let go of it, so I can fully be here with you."
Ars: "I understand, and I support you. If you need anything, just let me know."
Nad: "Thank you. And I'm here for you too, if you ever need to talk about anything."
Ars: "I appreciate that, Nad. I feel like we're really starting to understand each other on a deeper level."
Nad: "Me too. And I think this conversation has brought us even closer."
Ars: "Agreed. I love you, Nad."
Nad: "I love you too, Ars."
As they wrapped their arms around each other, Nad and Ars knew that their relationship had reached a turning point. By opening up about their pasts and facing their demons together, they had grown stronger as a couple. They were ready to face whatever challenges came their way, as long as they had each other.