Throughout our lives, our parents have a lasting impact on who we are and the decisions we make. They offer support when we need it and tough love when we aren't living up to our potential. It's not easy, and every child owes good parents a debt of gratitude and respect. Being a "perfect" daughter is one way of providing that, but it means being a daughter who is perfect for the people who raised her, respecting their values and making meaningful contributions to the happiness of her parents.