Me, you, us, what are we ?  Being in a relationship was never easy. It asks work from both paries and if one give up, the foundation is broken. Without a foundation, a house, a home can't not stay up; a couple cannot prosper. Life will throw obstacles at you, individually and to your couple, to be tested and see if y'all really want it. Good times are great, it allow you to enjoy life to the fullest; but hard times might have to be my favorite because they show people's true colors and put things into a whole other perspective. There is always a lesson that needed to be learned. You never stop growing. You never stop making mistakes. You never stop learning. Each day, you're getting something new. And it is best to move forward, become better and grow with someone that is really worth all the tears, sacrifices, headaches, heartaches, fights and arguments. Trust me, you don't to be with someone that will try to break up each day. You want someone that wants to see you prosper. Someone that is happy to see you do great in life. Someone that is willing to share their strength with you so you can built up more courage to go those battles. Yes, being in a relationship isn't all that simple.