At the engagement banquet, my girlfriend's first crush, Benjamin Rodriguez, asked her, "If I forcibly took you away right here at the engagement ceremony, would you come with me?"   My girlfriend, Annabelle King, replied with red eyes, "I would."   The entire room fell silent, and everyone expected me to flip out right then and there. But instead, I stood up, smiling, and applauded. "Just walk away. I wish all lovers could eventually be together forever!"