GENERALLY PROBLEMS BUT NOT ALL WHO ATTEND THEIR SOME WHO DO WHAT IS RIGHT Stage one How disrespect from young people 1 respect themselves 2 change their language by switching from Christian language to their own (worldly)And examples. 3 stop greeting the normal greeting. 4 holding of hands for a long time. 5 hugs one another for several days. 6 kiss on a chiki 7 lip to lips kissing 8 touching her body without respect 9 now emotion begins no one can control himself. Start now touch breast and having sex. Stage two That how many young their have reached. And they result there. 1 many girls stop listening to their parents. 2 Delete children after sex drink spem killer. 3 Stop fear God and his word. 4 stop respect their family. Stop to be responsible at home In this stage their are not in the will of God but the control of devil and evil forces begins to follow them and start. Stage three 1 thinking of running on their parents houses. 2. Killing themselves is a solution after get a pregnant. 3. Starting change brothers or sisters like clothes sleeping with them. small compromises can grow into bigger problems, Scripture + examples, understand and turn back. small compromise → habit → bondage → destruction. _James 1:14-15_: “Each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death.” _Galatians 6:7_: “Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.” --- ### *STAGE 1: SMALL COMPROMISES / DOOR OPENERS* This is where boundaries get lowered. *Scriptures:* 1. _Proverbs 4:23_ - “Guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life.” 2. _1 Thessalonians 5:22_ - “Abstain from every form of evil.” 3. _Ephesians 5:3_ - “But sexual immorality and all impurity... must not even be named among you.” *20 Examples of Stage 1 behaviors:* 1. Disrespecting parents and elders, talking back 2. Not respecting themselves: dressing, speaking, choices that degrade 3. Switching language: from God-honoring words to worldly/slang/cursing 4. Stopping normal greetings of respect in family/church 5. Holding hands for a long time with romantic intent 6. Hugging in ways that stir emotions, not just friendship 7. “Cheek kissing” that leads to more 8. Lingering touch on shoulders, back, hair 9. Touching in private areas “as a joke” 10. Watching movies/music with sexual content “it’s just entertainment” 11. Private chats late at night with opposite sex 12. Sending flirty texts/pictures 13. Being alone in closed rooms for long hours 14. Drinking alcohol “just to chill” 15. Lying to parents about whereabouts 16. Mocking Christian standards as “too old school” 17. Comparing self to influencers/celebs instead of Christ 18. Skipping prayer/devotion because “I’m busy” 19. Friendships that pull you away from church 20. Justifying: “We’re not doing anything wrong yet” --- ### *STAGE 2: HABITS FORM / SPIRITUAL DISTANCE* Boundaries are broken. Consequences start. *Scriptures:* 1. _Proverbs 5:8-9_ - “Keep your way far from her... lest you give your honor to others” 2. _1 Corinthians 6:18_ - “Flee from sexual immorality.” 3. _Romans 1:28_ - “God gave them up to a debased mind.” *20 Examples / Results of Stage 2:* 1. Girls/boys stop listening to parents’ counsel 2. Hiding pregnancy and seeking ways to abort / “sperm killers” 3. Losing fear of God and His Word 4. No longer respectful at home, chores ignored 5. Skipping church, calling it “boring” 6. Secret relationships parents don’t know about 7. Addictions: porn, alcohol, drugs to “cope” 8. Lying becomes normal 9. Guilt, shame, but hiding it 10. Dropping out of school/work responsibilities 11. Anger when confronted 12. Blaming others instead of repenting 13. Changing friend groups to those doing the same 14. Debt from trying to keep up appearances 15. Health problems: STDs, stress 16. Night life over family time 17. Mocking those who still live holy 18. Prayer life dies 19. Bible feels “dry” because of unconfessed sin 20. Feeling controlled by urges instead of the Spirit _Gal 5:16_ --- ### *STAGE 3: BONDAGE / DESTRUCTION* This is where the enemy gains strong influence. *Scriptures:* 1. _John 10:10_ - “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy.” 2. _Proverbs 7:27_ - “Her house is the way to Sheol, going down to the chambers of death.” 3. _Hebrews 12:16-17_ - Esau who sold birthright and later found no place for repentance *20 Examples of Stage 3:* 1. Thinking of running away from home 2. Thoughts of suicide after pregnancy/failure _God gives hope: Jer 29:11_ 3. Sexual relationships with relatives/siblings - incest _Lev 18:6_ 4. Multiple partners, treating people like objects 5. Abandoning children 6. Criminal activity to cover lifestyle 7. Deep depression and hopelessness 8. Cutting self/harming 9. Joining cults/gangs for acceptance 10. Hatred toward parents/family 11. Sell