My husband and I have been together 12 years and married 2months we have had our ups and downs but one thing about it we never gave up on each other the things we have been through are traumatic and horrifying but we never let it break us it just made us stronger and more importantly we survived and now this chapter in our lives is called our turn it's our turn to live the happy life and travel and buy a house start our dog rescue and be the bosses god intended us to be yes we still have people trying to bully us but we don't pay attention to the devil we deserve to be happy and at peace and besides it's mind over matter we don't mind and they don't matter. So the celebration of our 12 year anniversary I want to do something special for my husband he's been so awesome and I love and appreciate everything he does he's a good man and people take advantage of us and take our kindness for weakness. I woke up this morning to my husband and that's all I need in life. he's never seen snow I want to take him to hometown NY this Christmas for our anniversary so we can see the ball drop in time square and take him a really nice restaurant in time square for dinner so I'm really hoping I get some cash from my books but if not I'll figure something else out. I don't if I mentioned in my last story my husband is disabled he was in a motorcycle accident a few years back he lost control of the motorcycle when turning on a gravel road and hit a huge tree head on going 40 so he went to the hospital and they airlifted him to another trauma hospital it was bad but I thank God everyday we is here and okay so I stay home watching and caring for him 24/7 I don't mind though the things people have done to us just makes me love him more and more , I know my story is all over the place but it makes it more spontaneous and hey I'm not going to lie I'm not normal haha. but no seriously I want people to read my books and be like wow they have been through all that and they still stay positive well that's because there still good people in this world