my name is Sparkle Conner I am 47 and raised in Detroit Michigan I have one daughter that's my world loving myself and accepting life how the cards have been dealt to me I am a strong believer and life can change at a blink of an eye knowing what I know now makes me believe that you can have it all at once and lose it in one blink of an eye sad but it's the truth believe it or not we're on all borrowed time over the years I have lost a lot the hardest thing that I had to endure was losing my wife in 2020 I can say that my life has been in shambles ever since I've been moved from state to state to state and now it's time for me to blossom into something beautiful and lean more towards God cuz the things I've learned now the ones that said they had your back and they got you finding out not true at all they don't have my back is sad but it is what it is because I've actually been blessed with a phenomenal friend although I've done some dumb stuff but at the end of the day she been there guiding me the right way telling me right from wrong teaching me things that I should have known or I should have been taught long time ago but wasn't I'm learning to understand a lot of things that I didn't understand I'm learning to have thicker skin and I need to learn to learn to speak up and stop sitting in silence and stop letting people take advantage of me and stop letting people run all over me speak that has been the hardest thing that I had to do in life cuz every relationship that I have had they have done everything for me I didn't have to do nothing that was enabling me not teaching me things that I should already know at the age I am now I'm 48 blessed to see another year very grateful and thankful for everything I'm learning about people today I have been still learning every day about different energy and I am seeing how with having bad energy things doesn't goes well I have been having bad luck since I came to this state cause I should have listened to my friend when I was still living with my cousin she told me that I needed a spiritual cleaning and I didn't listen cause I haven't never heard anything about energy