"My Journey to Finding Love" ♥️♥️(part 1 )by ogbuozobe chinelo ify ✍️ ✍️ I remember when suitors started coming my way during my third year at university. I was 23 and this young man was eager to marry me immediately. But I let my doubts get the better of me, thinking I was too young to settle down with someone who wasn't financially stable.I called him one evening and told him I had changed my mind. He tried calling me back several times, but I had made up my mind.After graduation, I was posted to Gombe State for my NYSC. That's where I met another suitor from the North. His handsome, responsible, and caring. But my doubts crept in again, and I started thinking about the distance , cultural differences and what my people will say, so na like this now ,chinelo will become Hausa woman by marriage hmmm. odikwa possible? I asked myself.I eventually rejected him, citing concerns about our compatibility. I was then redeployed to Port Harcourt due to the crisis in the North.In Port Harcourt, I met another suitor from Ogoni. He was handsome, charming, and caring. I thought to myself, 💪💪"This is it. I've finally found the one." No distance barrier But just as things were going smoothly, Not until one Saturday morning, I called my guy, just to say hi but noticed a kind of distraction from the background, being curious, I asked him whether he is in the church program? he said No that he is in the church service. Are you a sabbatania? yes baby. Hmmm, I dropped the call immediately and my doubts resurfaced again. I didn't want to compromise my own faith, so I rejected him.My roommate suggested that I could have still married him and maintained my own faith, but I wasn't convinced.based on the idea brought by my roommate, I called the guy. Mr man told me that his grandfather was the founder of the church, his father is even a pastor that such thing cannot happened,. I couldn't even get leg to come down from his car.( finally, Church agbasia)😭😭😭As the years went by, I continued to reject suitors for various reasons. I was 25, then 27, and before I knew it, I was approaching 30.Gong back to Lagos after Christmas event without a geniue relationship. in that motor, I sat like people that went for a football match been defected with 5:0At 29, I started to feel the pressure, and my desire for marriage became more urgent .voom I changed church, and join winners chapel , I attended every program, and even joined the choir. I was determined to find a husband.But despite my efforts both transportation faire to Otta every Sunday, I remained single. I turned 30, then 31, 32, and 33 come!! Chinelo, are sure you're at the right place? I started to lose hope.I repacked myself back to my Anglican church and started afresh.It wasn't until I turned 34 that I realized I needed to re-evaluate my approach. I started to focus more on my faith and less on my desire for marriage.And then, something unexpected happened. A suitor appeared, and I thought to myself, "Finally, God has answered my prayers."💃💃💃But when I visited his home, I was taken aback by the state of his living room. It was dirty, and the smell was overwhelming. My doubts resurfaced, and I rejected him again.Five months before my 35th birthday, two Odogwus suitors appeared. I thought to myself, "This is it. I've finally found the one."this time around, I need to pick from the two suitors. as Anambra woman, my sisters and my brothers this is how I picked a very big stone that nearly crushed my teeths and landed me to square 2 Single.🤣🤣🤣I hope my story can serve as a cautionary tale for anyone who's still searching for love. Don't make the same mistakes I did. Keep an open heart and mind, and trust that God will bring someone special into your life when the time is right.

Do you know you can get answers to your prayers immediately. Im you to assist you on how you will get answers to your prayers without few days.ask it shall be given unto you