As a woman be your own mirror. If you love yourself enough no man will ever shape you as a women .Be the shape of your future, everything in life it about shaping your heart, mind, abilities. Positive thinking eliminate negative thoughts that we encounter as women after felling out of relationships thinking the isn't life after the loss of long term commitment. forgetting that if you love yourself before the start of any relationship you will be able to love yourself more after. life balancing able you as a woman to overcome every situation you come across , train your mindset to receive any situation you come across positively rather than dwelling in a problem, analysed it , assess it and manage it. Having kids will never defines you , how you take care of them in your lowest moments by being present, strong giving your kids love an hope of brighter future that defines the power of a women... leave a life with action, action hold power most of all believe in god . The power of a praying women it the most powerful weapon you will come across and it priceless..As women we have a tendency of looking down ourselves after the end of long term commitment, making bad choices by finding another man who's going to turn your world upside down and make your kids distance from the only person they have hope too .