A Dom wants to bring her to s****l fulfillment. He wants that for her even more than he wants it for himself (because her fulfillment is in his gift; she depends on him for it, and so it’s a big achievement for him if he can provide it for her). And the way to achieve that is not to give her just what she wants. You should try to make her want what you want to give her. Then she’ll know that she is submissive enough.
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A little resistance now and then only adds to the Dom’s pleasure in enforcing his wishes. But you have to be careful to find out the true nature of the resistance. A girl told me a hard limit was kneeling naked, because it involved some humiliation. When I probed it turned out that what was troubling her was her vanity. She thought that when performing that act she would
