Another mode is the vamp. I wonder if women ever quite realize how much s****l power they have over men, just how much men desire them. Some women do, maybe, but perhaps they don’t always welcome it; no one wants to think about s*x all the time, and a woman, even a submissive one, might feel there’s a lack of respect if she is treated solely as a s*x-object. But realizing your power, using it, flaunting it, can be incredibly arousing to a man. It might sound like this is merely play-acting, trying on different roles for fun. I don’t mean to suggest it’s all a game. It’s a lot more serious than that, for most of us. But exploring the different facets of your s****l personality isn’t the same as pretending to be things you aren’t. I don’t think pretending to be a dirty little slut when reall
