1. A good Dom should really want to be a dom. Sounds obvious? You don’t have to read too far around the net to come across cases where someone is trying to be a Dom or someone is trying to make him one, but it isn’t really working because he doesn’t actually want to control a submissive. There seems to be quite a lot of subs who are dissatisfied with their Doms in one way or another. They are always having to ask for spankings, always giving hints about their need to be tied up or roughed up, but they don’t get the response they need because he isn’t really into it.
I think quite a lot of ‘Doms’ pretend to want to control their subs because they are trying to please them. They know their lovers are submissive and want to be dominated, they are nice guys and so they try to please them by
