Let US Love Our Haters

One-day people will retire. A football player who have won several trophies, a pilot who have passed numerous flight, a renowned model who have achieved several numerous award, a Muslim have spread Islam all over the world, a housewife who have nurtured the whole family all of them will end up feeling tired, sigh, relieved, fascinated. People are so imaging. That’s why they are the best creation. people don’t know themselves better than others. Why no we think about ourselves? Why no we talk to ourselves when nobody is there? Why no we call ourselves by our name when no one is there to call us? We are forgetting ourselves every day. We are so busy about others. We are so hectic about others. We ourselves kill everyday by thinking about others life. For doing that we feel hesitated to purify ourselves. if someone point out our faults, our damages, our limitations than we feel bother. We start to hate them and get them far away from our life. We don’t even realize that people who point out our dust are actually our friends, our problem solver. This is because they are thinking about us by outgrowing their most valuable time. They know what suits us better. But we take them as culprit. Because we become afraid about what if others find out what exactly we are. But our so called hectic mind never realized that if we rectify ourselves from them who point out our damages then may be rest of the world will find us as perfect as we expected. Whereas we ourselves don’t like to engage ourselves to improve others. We don’t like to share our knowledge, our lesson, our art, our philosophy and thinking what if they become superior than us, what if they snatch away our victory. But we never realized that if we share what we have learned, what we are learning, what we are about to learn and if we engage others in our victory than the ultimate victory becomes ours. Victory, joy, improvement can be achieved through the improvement of surroundings. This is because victory is achieved through others. If I won the trophy all by myself like I have arranged the show, paid the audience, selected the gifts and performed all by myself than this kind of victory won’t last long. Because people may have lost interest when I was grabbing all the credits. We lose interest about something when we don’t engage ourselves about that matter. Suppose I am staying in Bangladesh, writing about people, writing about life in few small sheets. I may not have any interest to join in “Gala Night’ in Greece but I would love to see the live show of “Gala Night’ on television. This is because I have interest about their literature. But of course I may not feel any joy if Imran Khan win the president ship of Pakistan. This is because I have zero interest about Pakistan, about Imran Khan. I have never been to Pakistan. I didn’t see their culture, life style of people. That’s why any joyful incidents may not touch my heart about Pakistan ever. As a human being, I may have some compassion about their sorrowful incidents. I may spread my helping hands to the sufferers. So from now on we must engage people in our life. We must share our victory, our joy, our sorrow, our pain, our knowledge, our spirit to others. By that way they will love ourselves, they will enjoy our victory. They will never get away from us. They will never leave us alone. By that way we will become ultimate winner of life, winner of people, winner of everything. Actually it becomes bad habits that we blame others for our misfortune. We assume that we are always right by ourselves, we can’t do anything wrong. We are not capable of failing something without others intension etc. this is very much wrong assessment of us. We don’t know that we ourselves are responsible for our happiness as well as our sorrows. If we think we are lonely, nobody wants to be friends of us than this is not only their problem. This is mainly our problem. We are responsible for our bad time. Think about your school. If nobody wanted to sit beside you than try to figure out what was wrong with you and what was right with them. May be you used to sit tightly so that nobody could find any interest to push you. May be your face wasn’t smiley, may be your eyes was looking cold that never showed any warm invitation for others to be friend. You may think why do I have to be scalable all the time? Why do I have to make smiley face all the time? Before thinking so far look at the surrounding who are popular, who has unlimited friends, who are evicted by thousands and thousands of people. They are flexible, they are smiley. They know what people want from them and they act as the way people wants them to act. People are so much dependent on others attention. May be one may claim that I can leave alone in my entire life. I don’t need anybody for myself. But this is wrong thinking. If you choose to be alone than you have to lead a life like an animal where there is no hope, no aim. You will fell pointless. That realization makes you live far away from life. We become lonely because that’s what we choose by our act. So from now on we should be friendly, we should make friends, engage people in our life, in our benevolent activity unconditionally, let’s love haters and try to convert them as our lovers of life. By and by they will realize that we are their true friends. They will never leave us and talk bad behind us.