OVERJOYED MELANCHOLY

CHAPTER 12 WAITING - THE PUREST FORM OF LOVE

You must be thinking that why I literally kept this chapter in this book based totally on love ? Actually waiting for someone even when you know that everything's gonna change , you still choose to wait and stay , that's the purest kind of love.

• ONE SIDED LOVE

Many will ask that we've one sided love , what are we supposed to do then ? I'd say nothing. Actually now as you know the real meaning of love , you'll realise that everything's good and fine if they are fine. And if you're suffering from one sided love , just remember one thing , that everyone loves freedom. Our souls love freedom , so even if they don't love you keep loving them and if the love is pure , sacrificed and true , one or the other day they'll understand it and will be there with you.

• HOW TO LOVE EVEN IF SOMEONE ISN'T LOVING US ?

How to love even if they don't love us ? As last I said , give them freedom and love them without being selfish, don't think of your happiness always , think of their freedom and peace and happiness, this will halp you in attaining peace and you'll be able to love not just them but everyone and everything in this universe because as you'll love everything and everyone in this world you'll glow and grow differently, because a person who know how to love , knows life and its deepest secrets.

• HOW TO BE HAPPY EVEN IN SUCH SITUATIONS ?

A person who knows how to love , know life and its deepest secrets. Actually this is the secret of love that when you're just attached to someone you make that particular person the key of your lock , I mean you give them the key of your happiness , because your mood depends on their reactions and the way they're with you. But if you know the right way to love , you'll know that it's not " me " it's " we " and we are infinite in this universe and that's how you'll be the happiest, it's ok to be attracted for a while, but the moment you'll learn to love , you'll know that they matter first and you'll be happy in their wants and needs .

• LEARN TO WAIT FOR EVERYTHING

Waiting is the power , waiting is the key to success. As if a person can wait , can do anything he desires. If a person knows what he's supposed to do , he'll know how to wait. Now , why'd I say this ? It's probably because I waited , and I'm waiting for everything I ever wanted in my life. Love often comes with a rule , and the rule is " the lovable the thing or a person for you , more you'll have to wait for it , more pain will be there , but the end will be beautiful. " But still I'm happy because I love them. That's the secret, you realise how precious a thing , a person , a place , a career , a painting , a friend, a room , a book , or anything is , and then you have the power to wait. To wait for everything and everyone, while being the happiest. And if you can't wait , learn to wait , learn to have patience , learn to be happy , with what you have now , learn to be satisfied with whatever you have now. That's love , that's how a person grows in every field he or she is in. Love is something that creates us , that makes us a patient person , a beautiful soul, a satisfied person , a growing soul, a powerful person .

Love is something that creates us . We're made of love. The moment you start to chase love , you'll find love with you.

love everything you have , love everything around you !