OVERJOYED MELANCHOLY

CHAPTER 13 : PLEASURE VS LOVE

Pleasure is a big word when it comes to understanding the difference of love and pleasure. Pleasure is nothing but something that satisfies our mind and body's needs. On the other hand , Love is something that satisfies our soul.

There's an easy difference between these two words , pleasure is related to bodily functions and love is related to something that purifies our soul.

Let's understand it deeply that love and pleasure are two different things , one connects us from this worldly desires and other connects up with god.

When one is engaged with pleasure and worldly desires , he or she always thinks it as love , because it looks like that , the harmonic activities running through their bodies are the victims of something where satisfaction is gained , where on the other hand if it's love , you'll be peaceful and you'll see your soul getting satisfied and peaceful the moment you Dwell more in love. On the other hand , Love for me is everything , without love you can't even live your passion. Love isn't just two people in love but everyone and everything in this world loving each other . Love is done to friends , parents , your other half , nature , paint , rain , dance , music , game , football , birds , dogs , cats , humans , strangers , GOD . Remember we're gods born in the body of humans . Be proud of it . Love yourself too.

PERSPECTIVE

Perspective. We all think about it a lot , but does this even matter? Yes. Perspective is all that matters. We often think he's wrong or she's wrong but we tend to understand the values and understandings of that particular person , It's like I've experienced a lot of things in my life till now , and several are left , but this experience somehow became my own perspective of thinking and learning things . A human will react to a particular thing through their experiences , which means their experiences. Blasting on a person just by judging their perspective is judging their experiences in short !

What really matters is how you think and how they think , what their experiences are and what their perspectives are.

Reacting is something we humans do on our basis , on what we think ! And that's where an argument takes place . We will never know what a person is thinking until he tells us , we'll never know others' perspective until we're told about it , and if we react to that in a negative way ! Negative things will take place .

The person who understands what to say and how to react is the most understandable person , cause he knows what's happening.

So , what's the actual truth ? Reacting positively or negatively?? Actually it's none of it , cause we react according to our perspectives and experiences , and there could be millions of things to conclude , but what actually matters is " love and peace" where there are peace perspectives that will automatically change , where there is peace there is no war , inner or outer.

Cause I always say and I'll always say this - " everyone is right , according to their perspectives and experiences , and the one who's actually right has love in his heart , peace in his mind , and a smile on his face "

WHAT IS RIGHT? PLEASURE OR LOVE ?

In my eyes , love plays a major role in this situation. As pleasure is totally ok but it's temporary and it will not last long , on the other hand , love stays for ever. If we understand the real meaning of love and how to be loved , we'll see that it brings real peace to you and this world seems a better place when love is done and understood in a proper way. The best gift you can give yourself is a kind heart , a beating soul , a beautiful happy smile , and lots of love just for you . Loving is the most powerful thing to have . Keep spreading love .

THE ART OF LETTING GO

Letting go doesn't mean hating the person or replacing that person with someone else , instead letting go means love. For me letting go is the power one should have in themselves . The moment you achieve something, or you get a person in your life , you should be ready to let that particular person or thing go , because in this material world nothing matters the most , but love does . Love the thing , love the person , but on time if they want to leave , learn to let them go .