inconsiderate judjemnent.

Women want to be respected infacft women need to be respected but... What is a woman who has control over her own body? What is a woman who dresses the way she feels? What is a woman who dresses for herself and herself only? Is she modest, does she dress vulgar or is she ignorant and inconsiderate? So she has to be appropriate even when she is ,even when she was born that way ...but she is still at fault, So she is always at fault? It's always him and not her? So she can't just never..... Be just herself? Why is it that modesty is an idealised mannerism described by men who see a woman as a suitable wife ... Never just a humble woman to herself ? Even when she is young... Can she never just be more than a wife? But a woman. A wise woman to herself and others ? ... To not be bothered but live as her self? But in that state the humble state She can not stay? Because.... she is of perfect fit to be wed? But why... Is dressing for yourself as a woman have to be so open that it underlines our bodies and bring gazes , then we would say.. And blame people say it is they ,who they? But if you as yourself alone would see someone dressed just like yourself, someone who brings as much attention you'd had brought you too would stop and stare? Why do we lie sometimes? Why do we do for validation? Whose approval are you waiting for? When was the last time you were actually happy? Who are you and what do you do as yourself? And why sometimes Do we feel I'm not safe Im not respctable Even though you're clearly covered but the sculpture your trapped in portrays a masterpiece to them? Why do we think I should hide myself from the face of the earth I should cover up I should wear a different outfit.. It's not for my body.. Ohhh its provocative .. But What is a man in shorts and slippers off to the mall seemingly unbotherd and seeking no attention? But why is a woman with a long dress and curvy body tamed inappropriate because.. it's vulgar even though it's in the same context as the man? Should she cut her features to look less attractive to be appropriate or should she buy new clothes? Cover herself and show nothing for whom? Why can't she just dress in just clothes normal clothes and have no problems? Because it's our eyes The mind It has problems It's not them it's you The problem that makes one think their at fault.. Why when? • For ages african idigeous cultures or should i say people in the presence of absolute sunlight had attire both for men and woman which was half covering to the body because it was the only place it was important to cover then, it was no problem. • the world evolves, war, crimes, racism bombing, relegions , opression and ofcource western cultures who were fully covered because honesty have you seen their weather would you in your right mind be shirtless in that cold and no! • We eveloved as humans we found a balance in our diverse range of people and we found a common ground in a form of clothing,judjemnent ,rules regulations obligations and rights. Men well men... Men... Woman.. Family ... Everyone has a say in someone else appearnce unless it's themselves.