Third Day. Reframe what happened. This is what we were talking about on this day. Firstly, he asked me about that day as to what was happening. "It was a Friday and I had been invited to my friend's party, we were all hyped about the party especially me because I was one of those kids that were never allowed out of the house so I was looking forward to it" I told him the whole story leading to the night I was raped. There is stigma attached to being raped, you may be ashamed. It can make you feel dirty and weak. Also, fear what those will say of being judged because you have acknowledged it that is good it's a great step. When you stay silent you deny yourself help I know you have denied yourself help for a while and reinforced victimhood" he said. Okay I didn't see it that way, we were

