living the life of unexpected

Episode 1 The umbilical cord as it was cut in 22/02/2010 after a long 8 months of waiting. a dark beautiful baby girl was born and it was me. I was the second to be born and the last. I was expected but there was nothing to be done I was already born. The family who is happy and excited to give names they were arguing and fighting about which name will suit me the best. I was washed and given to my mother I started opening my eyes slowly and slowly I saw the what that we were in in the woman who gave birth to me holding me and smiling it was my mom Nolitha Mabele. she was wearing white hospital clothes with a blue sign representing the hospital, Prince Musheni hospital. and it was not an ordinary birth it was a caesarean section. The worn was still painful I saw it through her eyes. I closed my eyes struggling to breathe, breathing difficulty and shortness of breath my my mother didn't noticed until I stopped moving. my mother didn't know what to do she was shocked , scared to lose a baby all the family members who were president in the room they were shocked they haven't seen something like that before. they asked themselves what was going on was that a witchcraft or what. my old sister Aphiwe Sithokozile at the time she was 2 years old and she didn't know what was happening. she looked in my mother's eyes shocked but had no idea what was going on because the machine with too loud doctors were running calling each other. day took me and my mother to another word I kept on opening my eyes slowly and slowly closing my eyes at the same time. we entered the room and it was full of machines. my family members were in another word lefth asking themselves questions. my sister was crying because she's so my mother being taken from her. my father (Sibongiseni Mabiza Truman Mabele) was accusing himself about what happened to that Joy became pain. they were sent home. the next day my family we already had Star hospital by 6:00 a.m. it was like they slept at the hospital but no my father was a worker in the hospital and my dad's family house was near the hospital. Immediately they sent my mom to another word that's the family members were waiting in. is my mom entered the ward they started asking her questions about where I was and how I was doing as she was about to answer the questions they brought me in I was in a basket or a bowl I didn't know what was that it was closed and I was inside it. My belly was full of pipes that were connected to the machines and my nose with full of pipes that were connected to the machines. suddenly tears came out of my mother's eyes and my dad started rubbing my mom's back telling her to keep strong. This time they didn't bring my sister because she hate so many questions to ask and she was too young to experience and watch what was happening. the doctor came with the results she said we've found out that your daughter is diagnosis with sinus. Mom did not know what was even that all she wanted to know if I was going to be okay. the doctor replied and she said that I'm going to go home today after opening a file to prove that I was diagnosis with sinus. The doctor gave my family members time to be with me. My family decide which name will they name me has there with deciding my Aunt Ayanda Mabele said she head and name that will suit me Enhle , Enhle Mabele they all agreed in my mother said wait I had a name for so long that I wanted to give one of my daughter's Aseza,Aseza Mabele and those with names I was given. unfortunately the home affairs spelled my name wrong they said Eseza instead of Aseze. they bought me home. after 3 months my mother's father my grandmother and she was the only one who was left died. it was heartbreaking and it's still heartbreaking because I don't even know neither of my grandparents. my parents were heartbroken.My father's sister started to have problems that my father was still staying in their mother's house than my Father decided to leave and look for houses. my father's family house it was in Umlazi V . my father started looking for houses and they got one in Umlazi Y. They were many problems and my mother didn't like the house because it was too small to raise a big family. they didn't give up they carried on looking for houses and they found a site in Nsimbini the sides was good and it was big and they bought the sides. the day they bought the side they decided to buy a shack and my mother always tell me that life was hard. my father's salary they use to lay by bricks so that they can build a house